Classic conundrum. What to wear to a wedding? This weekend we have a summer evening wedding at an upscale country club. In three weeks we have a summer afternoon wedding at a church, followed by an evening reception at an upscale country club. I am debating between bridesmaid dresses that I own, or a maxi dress, or more of a cocktail dress. Hmmm. Looked online for some guidance, and here is what I found!